"Too many families grieve in silence, sometimes never coming to terms with their loss. Our goal is to help others relate to our loss, know what to say, do or not say, not do and to help families live with their loss, not 'get over' their loss." – Remembering Our Babies October 15th, home page .
These comments in the following section of this organization's site are particularly insightful:
http://www.october15th.com/uncategorized/hello-world/#comments
Browsing the site will lead you to some really valuable information.